You Don’t Have To Be Feminine.


There’s a lot of language around women’s sexuality that says “be more in your feminine” as though this is the only way to relate to polar energy that being fluid or “masculine” (whether trans,gnc/non-binary or cis).

I believe that part of our culture’s disruption and toxicity around intimate relationships is that there is no room for femmes to be perceived as assertive/wolf-like/dominant or masculine presenting folks to be perceived as soft/nurturing/submissive without their sexual orientation becoming a question.

These rules were created to keep us feeling disconnected and misunderstanding of one another.

Coming home into your sensuality is not about shape shifting into feminine energy if that is NOT where you feel most alive. Are there tools/wisdom you can learn from femininity ? Yes. Are there tools/wisdom you can learn from masculinity? Yes. Are there tools/wisdom that we can learn from dancing across the gender expression spectrum or being devoted to a neutral or androgynous experience ? Absolutely.

Let coming home to your sensuality be truly about coming home to YOU not allowing your life to be a prison to other people’s confines around sexual expression. If you’re the one having sex,making connections etc it has to feel right for you and your body. No one else matters. 

We are easing into our last four weeks of my current online group coaching course and I am preparing to welcome a new group of women into the fold in August. I’ll be sharing more details with the folks on my newsletter list this week and public next week! So sign up for the newsletter at the link below for early access details. 

Over this week we are going to revisit some of my sensual moving meditation classes. These are 1 minute videos designed to give you simple steps to release tension, reconnect to your body and take some much needed time for you.

Check out this one minute practice to "Losin Control" by RUSS

Whenever you're ready, here are three ways that you can work with me to become more unapologetic in your sensual expression so you can have more pleasure and deeper intimacy in your relationship and life. 

1. Join The Temptress Online Studio for My Monthly  Sensual Moving Meditation Classes & Self-Love Rituals To Reduce Stress, Build Confidence & Increase Pleasure.  This subscription is $35/m or $299/yr. Purchase Membership Here

2. The Temptress Masterclass LIVE- coming to #NewYork, #Atlanta and #Oakland. Early Bird Ticket Sales End Soon! Grab your seat today.  Tickets start at $45 for Individuals and $30/pp For Groups. Purchase tickets here!

3. Interested in my longer group or private coaching programs or the weekend retreats to take a deeper study of owning your sensual expression,reconnecting to your body and experiencing more pleasure in bed and life? Join the mastery course by scheduling a consultation + registration here You'll find out all the details on the course and whether it's the right fit for you at this time.