A weekend immersion designed to help you reclaim the narrative around your sexuality, feel confident and intentionally embody pleasure.

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The Deliberately Sexy Immersion

Radical Healing. Self-Care. Embodied Pleasure.

A self-reflection immersion designed to guide you in reclaiming the narrative around your erotic self so you can feel sovereign over your sexuality, confident and intentionally embody pleasure in your life.

Through a combination of erotic movement, visual history mapping, sensory exploration and performance devising, we will create new pathways for pleasure being an integral piece to our self-care, healing and joy. This course seeks to ask the question: How have you drawn towards or away from the erotic self based on the cultural narrative that being “sexy” is inferior to being intelligent, wise or completely avoidant to prioritizing pleasure as a necessity in your life?

Many of us can attest to hearing conversations around sexuality laden with stigma and shame. Through Deliberately Sexy we will envision and manifest a reality in our own lives that makes space for pleasure as a practice of thriving. This course is less about the mechanics of sex and more focused on how we can experience of the energy being in an orgasmic state as a tool for our own healing, self-care and embodiment of pleasure.

This cultural disconnection to our erotic self has left us grappling with:

  • Performative sex that leaves us unsatisfied and solely focused on the needs of our partner(s)

  • A disconnection to intimacy beyond physical sex that could fuel and feed our spirit

  • repeating similar cycles of sacrifice, shrinking and/or hiding in romantic partnership and life

  • Uncertain how to ask for what we desire and not setting clear boundaries

  • Unclear of our vision for our pleasure and ultimately putting ecstasy in the hands of someone else

When you join The Deliberately Sexy Retreat you’ll learn:

  • Release: Old narratives and stories that limit the way you have experienced your erotic self.

  • Reconnect: To the body in a way that feels affirming for you. Taking the focus off of performing sensuality and shifting into connecting for our own gaze and desire.

  • Revel: A new reality and narrative where pleasure is integral to our aliveness and lived experience.

Our time together will include: discussion, film screening, movement exploration, sensual dining throughout the day and a performance experience.


Friday Evening: 8:00-11:00 pm (drinks + light hor'dourves provided)

Saturday: 2:00 pm - 10:00 pm (snacks and dinner provided)

Sunday: 10:00 am - 5:00 pm (breakfast bar + lunch provided)

Please note your ticket to the immersion includes a ticket to the Saturday evening class. You do not need to purchase an additional ticket.

Multi-disciplinary artist, educator and speaker, Actor-Producer of Digital Series ”Sex Is A God Thing”, Rashida KhanBey Miller guides her classes beyond remembering the choreography to embodying their own authentic expression of the erotic self through dance. Each class gives participants an opportunity to drop our guards, learn embodied practices for cultivating surrender and luscious self-remembrance.